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How to Save a Sexless Marriage

Here’s a hint: it takes more than lighting a few candles and popping on some jazz music. In fact, it requires more talking than actual sex. We sometimes want to force ourselves into intimacy, thinking that if we get into it then we’ll get more in the mood. But the truth is that many couples stop having sex when more serious problems present themselves in other areas of the relationship.

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Coming Out As Bisexual To Your Partner

Our sexuality is a huge part of our identity, and while coming out as gay, bisexual, or any other non-straight sexuality may be scary and, in some cases, painful, it can also be liberating and empowering. Establishing our sexuality is an important part of our developmental journey into adulthood, and it helps us gain a sense of authenticity with ourselves, as well as with our partners.

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Desire Discrepancy: Living with it & Talking About It

Desire Discrepancy: Living with it & Talking About It

Let’s face it. For most couples, a healthy sex life is often indicative of a healthy relationship. But a lack of sex or asynchronous sex drives don’t have to be the end of a relationship that is otherwise functioning well. Desire discrepancy between partners is normal, but if it’s causing conflict or resent in your relationship, it’s important to address it.

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3 Reasons Men Have Fear of Intimacy in Relationship & Dating

3 Reasons Men Have Fear of Intimacy in Relationship & Dating

Intimacy is the ability to reveal the real you from the inside out. It is the ability to take risk and show vulnerability.  It seems like men struggle more with intimacy than women. Why do men have fear of intimacy? Are they not capable of intimacy? 

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